I got plenty of emails coming from guys asking if I could write some thoughts coming from a lady's point of view. Most of my blogs in the past are certainly pointed about how us girls would be irresistable and attractive to guys eyes. So just to give our guy readers a brieft hints about how girls think I answered a question comin from one of our readers.
"how do we know if girls are after us and not just after money?"
You can tell if someone likes you if they show that they care about what you are feeling. They will really listen to your needs and issues. If they are just using you they will basically act as if they have nothing and depend on you for everything.
Please keep in mind guys that there’s a different between a gold digger and a girl with a taste for the finer things in life…. Ok so let me break it down to you
Gentlemen, Please pay attention to this type of girls that you might encounter on a date.
Gold Digger :
- Generally, they are the type who prefer to wear Prada, but for the life of them, couldn't tell you how to spell it. They're not ashamed to flaunt their high profile status and alert you up front that you "have to pay to play" aside from the fact that her favorite phrase goes something like "my coochie is always dressed in Gucci!"
"Gold diggers
are often charismatic and know how to give the person they desire exactly what he needs until the well runs dry. Then, they split leaving the person who's been paying their way high, dry and emotionally hurt. So how does a guy avoid getting one as a girlfriend? " Check if youre girlfriend is...
“Your girlfriend has never dated a "regular" Joe. “
“Your girlfriend is only interested in materialistic activities.”
- Yeah, I know. Bummer right?
Don’t worry guys karmas a bitch,, in the end they get whats coming, to bad we cant see it when it happens..
Girl with a taste for the finer things in life I called them “Miss Independent”.
- This type of girls are totally different to a Gold digger, They have class and style they don’t ask for anyone’s help and have dignity for themselves. This girls don’t actually care about social standard or social ladder because this girls are more focus in their career compare to those Gold diggers who use social activities to catch big fishes.
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- "She doesn’t expect you to take her out to dinner every night, a home cooked meal is always a nice bonding. She Appreciate when you surprise her with her favorite Starbucks drink when she gets up in the morning. This girl prepare special occasions than materialistic activities."
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This type of woman believes in equality -- not one of the radical man-haters, or the hypocritical pseudo-feminists who think that equality means "I demand equal rights and an equal salary, but a man still has to pay for me." They genuinely like men, and understand that equality means equality across the board, from holding the door open to fighting on the front lines. They believe that a relationship should be a 50/50 partnership, and are more than willing to shoulder their half of the responsibilities and dating expenses.
This type of woman believes in equality -- not one of the radical man-haters, or the hypocritical pseudo-feminists who think that equality means "I demand equal rights and an equal salary, but a man still has to pay for me." They genuinely like men, and understand that equality means equality across the board, from holding the door open to fighting on the front lines. They believe that a relationship should be a 50/50 partnership, and are more than willing to shoulder their half of the responsibilities and dating expenses.
- She also has a real life of her own and is happily going in her own positive direction. She's the type who wants a man in her life, but doesn't need a man in her life. And she certainly isn't looking for men to solve all her problems or blame when things don't go her way.
- So I hope you already figured out what kind of girl you are dating now. Goodluck and I hope it helps. J
Very interesting info.
ReplyDeleteKeep it up. 2 thumbs up ^_^