Goodbye My Dearest Friend

© Leilani Hermosa Petersen

The hardest part of any friendship
is when it is time to say goodbye,
and even though I wished I could make you stay,
I know I got to let you spread your wings and fly.

For life is a journey that needs to be travelled
and I am certain you'd make it through,
I just want you to know and never forget
that I will surely miss you.

So follow your heart and never give up,
as dreams and wishes do come true,
for I know that someday we'll meet again,
so never forget I will be praying for you.

How to Tell If He's Into You

Like most women, you probably want to
know if a guy is interested in you or
not at all.  It takes a lot to muster up
the courage to approach guys and ask
them directly how they feel and most
women would rather keep their feelings
to themselves  than confess and get
rejected.


However if you can no longer hide your
feelings and want to know if he feels
the same way too, you can do your own
love test to find out if the guy is into
you.


This article will be discussing some of
the things that guys do to let girls
know how they truly feel.


He Likes Spending Time With You:


A guy is totally into you if he prefers
to spend time with you rather than going
out to an all-night drinking session
with his buddies.


He will take every chance possible to
spend every minute by your side.  This
is his way of telling you than he likes
being with you and you are important to
him.


So if you don't have plans for Friday
night, you can invite him to see a movie
or check out the newly-opened restaurant
near your area.  You can also rent some
movies and have a DVD marathon in your
place.


He Enjoys Talking to You


Guys enjoy talking to girls they like.


If a guy is interested in you, he will
find a way to get your number so he can
call you and talk to you.


He may even befriend one of your pals
just so he could ask for your number.


He will always find time to talk to you
even with his busy schedule.


He Remembers the Little Things  About
You


Most guys have short attention span.


If a guy remembers you telling him once
that you used to be afraid of closet
monsters when you were a kid or
something irrelevant as having your
first real haircut when you were seven
years old, then he must be really into
you.


You can keep on talking to guys for
hours and they would only digest some or
only the things that catch their
attention.


However if he a guy remembers tiny
details about you, then he really is
interested in you.  It means that he is
attentive to everything you say and
actually listens to you without being
forced to.


He Does Things he Won't Normally Do


A guy who wants to impress the girl he
likes will do things he won't normally
do.


He helps you with some of your after
school work such as arranging books in
the library or photocopying reference
materials and admits that he has never
done it before.


He enrolls in a cooking class because he
finds out you like cooking.


He attends weekend volunteer group
activities with you and your pals just
so he could spend Saturday afternoons
with you.


If the guy will go to such lengths as
doing stuffs he won't normally do, then
you're in for a treat.  The guy is
totally into you.


He is Interested to Meet your Family


Most guys shy away when it comes to the
idea of meeting the girl's family.


It's like a nerve-wracking experience
that they'd rather avoid or delay for as
long as they can.


However if a guy is interested in
meeting your family then it is a good
sign.  It means that he wants to get to
know the people who are part of your
life too.


This gesture can mean that he is serious
in knowing everything about you.


If he wants to meet your family then you
can bring him along the next time you
visit your family.


If he gets along well with them, then
you have nothing to worry at all.


Contrary to what most women believe,
guys are similar to girls and are also
hard to figure out.


With guys, you have to be observant if
you want to know how they feel because
they don't usually go confessing their
love every time.


Guys also fear rejection.


They are also shy when it comes to
confessing their feelings.


It is important for girls to know that
guys much rather prefer to show their
feelings through action and will stick
to it until they have enough courage to
confess their love.