ARE YOU DATING A PLAYER?

WHAT A PLAYER IS?

Players are basically men, whether
they're single or otherwise, who play
the dating game solely for the fun of
it.

As you might expect, players aren't
great for relationships. They CAN be
hot, steamy boyfriends for a few weeks
or so -- but once they have their way
with you, they get bored.

Here are a few ways to tell whether or
not he's a player...

HOW TO TELL IF HE'S A PLAYER

Player Red-Flag #1 - A player wants sex
early in the relationship. Does he talk
about or suggest having sex within the
first few weeks of the relationship?

Does he sometimes schedule to meet you
somewhere private, such as at his place
or yours?

Be careful -- having sex early in the
relationship is NEVER good for you!
(It's only good for him, and no one
else.)

After having sex with you, he'll start
thinking he has already "conquered"
you -- and he'll lose interest in
keeping the relationship going any
longer.

Ouch!

Player Red-Flag #2 - A player doesn't
like to talk about the future.

In fact, he avoids talking about the
relationship a lot .

He's much, much more interested in the
present than the future!

Let's face it -- players have no plans
of keeping you as their girlfriend for
very long. Once they find a new toy (a
new woman, obviously), they'll dump you.

They'll spend less time with you,
causing you to get angry and argue with
them -- and they'll use that as an
excuse to say, "It's not really
working out for us."

Double ouch!

Player Red-Flag #3 - A player isn't too
interested about your background.

He doesn't listen too well, and gets
bored quickly when you talk to him about
yourself and more "intellectual"
topics. When he talks, it's mostly about
himself.

That's a given -- after all, players
survive in the dating game by marketing
themselves. They want to look good,
sound good, and feel good to the women
they meet. After all, that all that
matters to him -- "winning" women's
hearts.

-Good Luck!