what is the difference between Lust and Love?

Hi Guys,

I got loads of questions coming from my GFs asking what is the difference between Lust and Love. When one of my good friend asked me that question, I was paused for a while... So I decided to make a small research project about the difference between Lust and Love. And here they are : 

LUST

You are totally focused on his looks and body.

You don’t bother to return his calls and you can easily go for days without talking to him.

You only want to be with him to have sex.

You leave after sex [find easy ways].

LOVE

You have a great chemistry.You want to spend time with him.You see a future together.You introduce him to your family.You include him in your plans.He makes you want to be a better woman.

Three important points that distinguish love from lust:

The way it makes us feel The dynamics of our interaction The focus of our attention

LOVE - When your eyes meet across a crowded room. LUST - When your tongues meet across a crowded room.

 LOVE - When intercourse is called making love. LUST - When intercourse is called screwing.

LOVE -When he share everything he own. LUST - When he STEAL  everything you own.

LOVE - When it doesn’t matter if you don’t climax. LUST -When the relationship is over if you don’t climax.

LOVE - When HIS  heart flutters every time he see you. LUST - When his groin twitches every time he see you.

LOVE - When all the songs on the radio describe exactly how you feel. LUST - When all the songs on the radio determine how you do it.

LOVE -When breaking up is something you try not to think about. LUST -When staying together is something you try not to think about.

LOVE - When you’re only interested in doing things with your partner.LUST -When you’re only interested in doing things TO your partner. 

LOVE -When a rainy day means more time to stay inside and talk.LUST -When a rainy day means more time to stay inside and have sex.

LOVE - You only leave the house for coffee and doughnuts. LUST - You only leave the house for condoms and Vaseline.

Lust and love are separated by a very thin line. Therefore, it is important for you to be able to tell the difference in order to save you from wasting time presuming a relationship that is destined to fail.

The major difference between lust and love is that love is a selfless concern for another person, where lust is totally self-focused. 

This past few weeks, I've learned a lot of good lessons... I hope I enlighten you guys and I gave all the proper information to keep you going.. There's no good and bad in this world, believe me its a matter of choice. Believe in what you think is right and do what you think is best for you.

To Barbie,Thess and Emmy : Ten things that you don’t know about..

1.      I am one of those people in this world love you so much and would die for you.

2.      I am one one of some other people in this world love you in someway.

3.      The only reason anyone would ever hate you is because they want to be just like you.

4.      A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone, even if they don’t like you.

5.      Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you before they go to sleep.

6.      You mean the world to someone.

7.      If not for you, someone may not be living.

8.      You are special and unique.

9.      Someone that you don’t even know exists, loves you.

10.   When you think the world has turned its back on you, take a look Because I am here for you.

Thank You For Being My Friend

Thank you for believing in me when I found it difficult to believe in myself... for saying what I've needed to hear sometimes, instead of what I've wanted to hear.... for siding with me.... and for giving me another side to consider. Thank you for opening yourself up to me.... for trusting me with your thoughts and disappointments and dreams.... for knowing you can depend on me and for asking my help when you've needed it. Thank you for putting so much thought and care and imagination into our friendship... for sharing so many nice times and making so many special memories with me. Thank you for always being honest with me... being kind to me... being there for me. Thank you for being a friend to me in so many meaningful ways.

I LOVE YOU

Ten Things That I've learned in Life....

1. I've learned
that you cannot make someone love you.
All you can do is
be someone who can be loved.
The rest is up to them.

2. I've learned -
that it takes years to build up trust,
and only seconds to destroy it.

3. I've learned -
that it's not what you have in your life
but who you have in your life that counts.

4. I've learned -
that you can do something in an instant
that will give you heartache for life.

5. I've learned -
that no matter how thin you slice it,
there are always two sides.

6. I've learned -
that you should always leave
loved ones withloving words.
It may be the last time you see them.

7. I've learned -
that you can keep going
long after you think you can't.

8. I've learned -
that regardless of how hot and steamy
a relationship is at first,
the passion fades and there had better be
something else to take its place.

9. I've learned -
that learning to forgive takes practice.


10. I've learned -
that your life can be changed
in a matter of hours

by people who don't even know you.