Hi Guys,I got loads of questions coming from my GFs asking what is the difference between Lust and Love. When one of my good friend asked me that question, I was paused for a while... So I decided to make a small research project about the difference between Lust and Love. And here they are :
LUST
You are totally focused on his looks and body.
You don’t bother to return his calls and you can easily go for days without talking to him.
You only want to be with him to have sex.
You leave after sex [find easy ways].
LOVE
You have a great chemistry.You want to spend time with him.You see a future together.You introduce him to your family.You include him in your plans.He makes you want to be a better woman.
Three important points that distinguish love from lust:
The way it makes us feel The dynamics of our interaction The focus of our attention
LOVE - When your eyes meet across a crowded room. LUST - When your tongues meet across a crowded room.
LOVE - When intercourse is called making love. LUST - When intercourse is called screwing.
LOVE -When he share everything he own. LUST - When he STEAL everything you own.
LOVE - When it doesn’t matter if you don’t climax. LUST -When the relationship is over if you don’t climax.
LOVE - When HIS heart flutters every time he see you. LUST - When his groin twitches every time he see you.
LOVE - When all the songs on the radio describe exactly how you feel. LUST - When all the songs on the radio determine how you do it.
LOVE -When breaking up is something you try not to think about. LUST -When staying together is something you try not to think about.
LOVE - When you’re only interested in doing things with your partner.LUST -When you’re only interested in doing things TO your partner.
LOVE -When a rainy day means more time to stay inside and talk.LUST -When a rainy day means more time to stay inside and have sex.
LOVE - You only leave the house for coffee and doughnuts. LUST - You only leave the house for condoms and Vaseline.
Lust and love are separated by a very thin line. Therefore, it is important for you to be able to tell the difference in order to save you from wasting time presuming a relationship that is destined to fail.
The major difference between lust and love is that love is a selfless concern for another person, where lust is totally self-focused.
This past few weeks, I've learned a lot of good lessons... I hope I enlighten you guys and I gave all the proper information to keep you going.. There's no good and bad in this world, believe me its a matter of choice. Believe in what you think is right and do what you think is best for you.
