Here's one of the BIGGEST differences between men and women when it
comes to relationships.
While women unconsciously set "deadlines" for their casual
relationships to evolve into more serious ones, men actually don't.
Keep this in mind from now on: MEN DON'T HAVE YOUR SENSE OF TIME IN
THE RELATIONSHIP.
They won't commit to you simply because you've been dating for longer
than you hoped.
They won't commit to you simply because it's Christmas.
And they won't commit to you simply because "Uncle Ben" or
"Aunt May" keeps implying marriage every now and then over
Thanksgiving Dinner.
So what DOES make a man commit?
The answer is simple -- HIMSELF.
A man has to be sure -- absolutely, completely sure -- that he wants
to be in a more serious relationship with you.
A man has to know it in his mind, his heart, and his gut that he
wants to settle down with you for the rest of his life.
And -- you guessed it -- he has to decide HIMSELF.
Here's where many women make yet another big mistake in their
relationships. Many women think that if they tried hard enough, they
could CONVINCE a man to commit to them.
If you could tell a man that committing to you would make him happy,
and that a serious relationship would be more fun and fulfilling in
the long run, he would have no reason NOT to propose to you, right?
Wrong!
I love this saying -- "You can't change a man unless he's in
diapers."
It tells you that no matter how much you reason, plead, or nag, you
can never DIRECTLY make a man commit to you.
He has to decide that for himself.
