you'll need to push to make a man want
you, even if you're only talking for the
first time or sitting down for your
first date.
After all, it's the first impression
that lasts the longest -- let's make it
count!
Here we go with Button #1:
BUTTON #1 - LOOKING GOOD FOR HIM
Ever heard of the phrase, "A picture
paints a thousand words?"
That's very true, especially in the
dating game!
The first "picture" he sees of you --
that's when he sees you for the first
time -- will "talk" to him long before
you actually say your first words to
him!
You don't have to look the best, by the
way -- just look the best you can
possibly be.
BUTTON #2 - BE A FIRST-RATE VERSION OF
YOURSELF
Here's another interesting button to
push...
In the real world, men are used to the
usual fakery that comes in the dating
game and the Internet.
They've met their fair share of women
who lie about their age, their jobs,
their plans for the future, etc., just
to be loved.
But if you present yourself as YOURSELF
-- with absolutely nothing to hide, and
nothing to be ashamed of -- then it's a
breath of fresh air for him!
It might actually catch him by surprise,
leaving him wondering if you're "for
real!"
All of a sudden, he's not going to see
you as a "one-night-stand" girl, but a
possible partner for the long term.
And if he's ready for a real
relationship, he's going to stick around
and try to find out!
BUTTON #3 - BELIEVE IN YOURSELF
Sure, you may not be the richest girl on
the block.
You may not be the prettiest or the
sexiest, and you may not know too much
about fashion.
That's okay!
You'll need a "secret weapon."
This "secret weapon" is actually the
great equalizer in the dating game.
With it, you don't have to be the
richest, prettiest, sexiest, or smartest
girl around -- but you'll still make the
men around you WANT YOU all to
themselves.
What is this "great equalizer?"
You might be surprised -- it's actually
very simple.
It's CONFIDENCE!
Ever noticed how the most confident men
out there are also the most attractive?
It doesn't seem to matter if they're not
the tallest, richest, or best-looking --
their confidence literally BECKONS to
you to come closer and say "Hi!"
Well, guess what? It works both ways!
Men ALSO zoom into women who are strong,
confident, and independent.
They like being with a woman who can
take care of herself -- after all, it's
a lot more fun to have a
"low-maintenance" girlfriend than one
who BEGS for their support!
So when you're not ashamed of yourself
-- when you're confident enough to just
go out there and NOT care what other
people think of you -- it's a major
plus!
It pushes all the right buttons on the
men you meet. When men know you're
living a fabulous life, you can bet
they'll want to be a part of it!
BUTTON #4 - JUST HAVE FUN
During first dates, many of us make the
mistake of wondering, "Is he the one?"
And we end up becoming a nervous wreck
throughout the date, making sure we're
saying and doing all the right things,
making sure he'll LIKE us.
Of course, that never works. Men aren't
dumb, and they can tell you're putting
on a show.
So don't make the mistake -- just lay
back, have fun, and focus on having a
great time with him.
Talk!
Listen!
Tease!
Joke!
Flirt!
If you keep things light and fun for
him, he's going to be VERY interested in
a second date!
Here's the sad statistic -- whenever you
date a new single guy, chances are he's
not ready to handle a real relationship.
(There are more players than
boyfriend-material guys out there, after
all.)
So don't focus on the "future" -- just
make the most out of the "now!"
When he realizes he absolutely LOVES
spending time with you, he might
actually MAN UP for you -- and start
courting. Congratulations!
Ladies, I just taught you four of the
most important buttons to push in the
men you meet. These buttons are meant to
turn them from being UNINTERESTED to
being VERY INTERESTED indeed! So Goodluck! :D
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