The Secret of A Billionaire's Wife

 Do you believe in "Law of attraction"? Maybe you should need to give a minute to read the secret of a Billionaire's wife. 

BILLIONAIRE WIFE SECRET #1 - IT'S NOT
JUST ABOUT LOOKING GOOD

Sure, when you look at the wives of billionaires, it's easy to think, "Wow, they sure look good. They were lucky to catch the eye of their billionaire husbands."

That's not really the case. According to Forbes' Billionaire Wives List: "Looks are good, but brains are even better." And that's a secret the wives of many of today's billionaires take to heart!

I'm sure you'll agree with me that most billionaires today are smart, hardworking, visionary people.They are!

And I'm sure you'll also agree with me that such wonderful men would also want someone equally fantastic to spend the rest of their lives with.

That's why billionaire wives need to match up to and keep up with their billionaire husbands.

Ever heard of the phrase, "Behind every man's success is a woman?" You may be surprised to know that some billionaire wives are even smarter and more successful than their billionaire husbands!


So don't just work on your looks. Work on your mind, too.

Keep on moving!


BILLIONAIRE WIFE SECRET #2 - HAVE A LIFE
OF YOUR OWN.

Some women think that billionaire wives do nothing but go around spending their husbands' money.
That's NOT true! Many wives of billionaires today are billionaires in their own right -- working hard, taking risks, serving the community, etc.

Let me give a few examples...

Do you know Sergey Brin? He's the co-founder of Google, perhaps the best-known name on the Internet. In 2007, he married Ann Wojcicki, a Yale graduate.
Ann started out as a health-care analyst, but now owns her own biotech organization.

See? Now that she's the husband of Google's co-founder, she could just as well stop working and live comfortably for the rest of her life. 

But She didnt. She had a life of her own.

She didn't stop working, and instead opened an entirely new business centered around her expertise!

Here's another example. Do you know Michael Dell? He's the billionaire head honcho of Dell Computers.
His wife, Susan Dell, didn't heed the temptation to just sit back and enjoy the billionaire lifestyle. Instead, she hustled to live up to the title of "billionaire wife.'

Today, Susan heads her own fashion line. That's right -- she owns her own company! Definitely not someone who "sits around and does nothing," if you ask me!

After all, the most successful men out there definitely WON'T look for a woman who's only going to depend on them!

BILLIONAIRE WIFE SECRET #3 - KNOW THAT
IT'S NOT JUST ABOUT YOU.

I'd like to give another example of a well-known billionaire wife. She's Melinda Gates, the wife of the billionaire head of Microsoft, Bill
Gates.

She's done some notable work at her husband's community, developing some of its better-known products. But Melinda doesn't spend all her time at Microsoft.

In fact, she devotes a large chunk of her time, resources, and attention to the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, which focuses on reducing extreme poverty in Africa and improving education in America.

To date, she and her husband bill have donated more than 24 billion dollars to the Foundation.

Here's one secret about billionaire wives -- they're NOT money-grubbers. Many of them are actually kind-hearted,
gentle souls who DON'T think about themselves all the time.

Remember one thing -- the most successful, the most responsible, and the most commitment-ready men out there DON'T stay put.
They keep moving. They keep growing. And they keep finding ways to become even BETTER men as time goes by.

And here's the thing -- they'll want their girlfriends and wives to keep up with them. They'll want the women in their lives to be just as dynamic, if not more so, than they are.



So the question is - CAN YOU MATCH A BILLIONAIRE HUSBAND?

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My Stands about Marriage and Commitment

People blame marriage for causing bad relationships when it’s people who cause bad relationships. When a marriage fails, it’s not because the couple got married. It’s because people change. Or they realize that they don’t have what it takes to stay married to this person, which of course is something they should have realized long before they considered marrying him or her. But I don’t think it’s right to blame marriage per se for making people unhappy with each other. It’s not marriage that’s the problem; it’s that people see it differently than they used to.

It’s funny how gay people are fighting for the right to get married while straight people are eschewing it. I think marriage is important because of what it symbolizes: that you’re committed to one another and plan to make a life together. I know some people think that people who don’t get married aren’t willing to make that commitment and that’s not necessarily true.

Marriage may not always stand for lifelong commitment. But it is still true that marriage stands for some kind of commitment. Otherwise why bother to marry? Why do gays want to marry, for instance, especially when they are already able to reap the benefits of marriage by establishing themselves as domestic partners?

But that was their business. There are all different ways of showing that you have a commitment to another person. One is to have children together. You’ll always have ties with the other parent, even if you don’t marry. Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston Broke up because Jen doesnt want to bear a child. Now, Brad is happily living together with Angelina and their kids without any marriage involve. I think extension of love is what giving the couple to stay together and more commited than ever.

Some people believe that staying together without marriage shows more commitment, because after all, you don’t have to stay together. When the actress Farrah Fawcett was dying of colon cancer, the man she had lived with for decades and had a child with (Ryan O’Neal) was there by her side even though they hadn’t been together for several years. In my opinion, this shows that they had felt married, no matter what they told the world.

Commitment is the real issue here. People get married because they want to show that they’re committed to the relationship. They often stay married because of that same commitment. But if the commitment is no longer there, divorce will almost inevitably follow.

10 Things I wanna Do Before I Die

1. Fly A Plane.
2.Hang My Art in A Gallery.
3.Walk all the way of the Great Wall of China.
4.African Safari.
5.Drive a professional NASCAR Stock Car.
6..Cross a country on a bicycle.
7.Gate crash in a Private Party.
8.Meet the Dalai Lama.
9.Sleep under the stars.
10.Get Married.

5 Traits That The Real Lady Should Have

1. She treats everyone as an equal

She would speak to the janitor, waiter or hotel receptionist as she would to her friends. Always polite, unhurried, undemanding. She does not gush or laugh a little louder to try to impress or please. She does not elevate or 'humble' herself. She has one manner for all.

2. She is Kind, Thoughtful And Considerate

Her speech is always gracious because complaining and being negative ruins someone's mood. 

3. She is a Quality over Quantity type of woman.

She develops an acute taste and eye for quality. This requires discipline, be it shopping for books or food. To prefer quality is a form of respect. She respects herself, the workmanship, and the cost of what it took to obtain it.

4. She Values Education and Self-Improvement

She makes an effort to be interested in matters outside herself. Therefore, reading is a mainstay hobby for intellectual pursuits and so are sport because it develops character. Travel is valued because it expands horizons and helps her gain perspective. It increases her understanding on culture.

5. She Contributes to Society

She often thinks about how she can give, and be a useful and contributing member of society. She realizes this secret...giving and living larger than yourself is a source of great happiness and fulfillment.
Thus, she is generous. She wants in her own way, to make the world a better place. She wants to be a useful and contributing member of society


and always ask yourself, "What is the kindest way possible of doing this thing?".

"get married or break up"

I just suddenly feel like writing today!

One of my friend, ok her name is Ms A, she called me 2:45 in the morning and freaking out....she said
she is gonna break up with her BF because he is not gonna propose to her.

"get married or break up"

she also said all her friends say he is a dick caz he date w/her for too long, and don't marry her.

hmmmm... I dont know...I couldn't say anything..
To be honest, i feel sorry for him.
i mean...

WHY GIRLS WANT TO GET MARRIED SO MUCH???

why they want to get "Marriage certificate" to legitimize relationship?
i know it sounds like Going against nature.

but think of it.
if they love each other and happy, that's just fabulous!! no need any certificate.

dont you think so?

maybe im strange... I also think the odds of having a successful relationship increase by not getting married....?!

Oh! Actually marriage has its good side for men!!!

I heard that "Married man live longer than single."

BUT married man are more willing to die.


Good night:)

Women Who Know Beauty Isn’t Everything

I’ve found that women who care about nothing more than looks lack a sense of purpose. They have no idea why God put them here (aside from sit there and look pretty), and are making no efforts to figure it out. They’re too busy shopping, clubbing, lounging, or chasing men to stop and consider their course. One day, they’ll look up and realize that they’re no longer that beautiful twenty-something girl they used to be. They’re 45 years-old, on the express train to the botox counter, praying that it will provide them some relief. Then, they’ll look over their shoulders, see that there are millions of women as young as they USED to be. Without purpose, what’s next? As young women, we often poke fun at the collagen laden, six and seven ex-husband having, would be cougars in the media. Instead of rushing to ridicule them, maybe we should consider what events brought those women to their current situation–where everyone raves about how beautiful they “were” but have little to say about the women they become.

ARE YOU DATING A PLAYER?

WHAT A PLAYER IS?

Players are basically men, whether
they're single or otherwise, who play
the dating game solely for the fun of
it.

As you might expect, players aren't
great for relationships. They CAN be
hot, steamy boyfriends for a few weeks
or so -- but once they have their way
with you, they get bored.

Here are a few ways to tell whether or
not he's a player...

HOW TO TELL IF HE'S A PLAYER

Player Red-Flag #1 - A player wants sex
early in the relationship. Does he talk
about or suggest having sex within the
first few weeks of the relationship?

Does he sometimes schedule to meet you
somewhere private, such as at his place
or yours?

Be careful -- having sex early in the
relationship is NEVER good for you!
(It's only good for him, and no one
else.)

After having sex with you, he'll start
thinking he has already "conquered"
you -- and he'll lose interest in
keeping the relationship going any
longer.

Ouch!

Player Red-Flag #2 - A player doesn't
like to talk about the future.

In fact, he avoids talking about the
relationship a lot .

He's much, much more interested in the
present than the future!

Let's face it -- players have no plans
of keeping you as their girlfriend for
very long. Once they find a new toy (a
new woman, obviously), they'll dump you.

They'll spend less time with you,
causing you to get angry and argue with
them -- and they'll use that as an
excuse to say, "It's not really
working out for us."

Double ouch!

Player Red-Flag #3 - A player isn't too
interested about your background.

He doesn't listen too well, and gets
bored quickly when you talk to him about
yourself and more "intellectual"
topics. When he talks, it's mostly about
himself.

That's a given -- after all, players
survive in the dating game by marketing
themselves. They want to look good,
sound good, and feel good to the women
they meet. After all, that all that
matters to him -- "winning" women's
hearts.

-Good Luck!