Understanding A Man's Sense Of Time

Here's one of the BIGGEST differences between men and women when it comes to relationships.

While women unconsciously set "deadlines" for their casual relationships to evolve into more serious ones, men actually don't.

Keep this in mind from now on: MEN DON'T HAVE YOUR SENSE OF TIME IN THE RELATIONSHIP.

They won't commit to you simply because you've been dating for longer than you hoped.

They won't commit to you simply because it's Christmas.

And they won't commit to you simply because "Uncle Ben" or "Aunt May" keeps implying marriage every now and then over Thanksgiving Dinner.

So what DOES make a man commit?

The answer is simple -- HIMSELF.

A man has to be sure -- absolutely, completely sure -- that he wants to be in a more serious relationship with you.

A man has to know it in his mind, his heart, and his gut that he wants to settle down with you for the rest of his life.

And -- you guessed it -- he has to decide HIMSELF.

Here's where many women make yet another big mistake in their relationships. Many women think that if they tried hard enough, they could CONVINCE a man to commit to them.

If you could tell a man that committing to you would make him happy, and that a serious relationship would be more fun and fulfilling in the long run, he would have no reason NOT to propose to you, right?

Wrong!

I love this saying -- "You can't change a man unless he's in diapers."

It tells you that no matter how much you reason, plead, or nag, you can never DIRECTLY make a man commit to you.

He has to decide that for himself.

A Time for Everything

 ¹ There is a time for everything,
       and a season for every activity under heaven:

 ² a time to be born and a time to die,
       a time to plant and a time to uproot,

 ³ a time to kill and a time to heal,
       a time to tear down and a time to build,

 ⁴ a time to weep and a time to laugh,
       a time to mourn and a time to dance,

 ⁵ a time to scatter stones and a time to gather them,
       a time to embrace and a time to refrain,

 ⁶ a time to search and a time to give up,
       a time to keep and a time to throw away,

 ⁷ a time to tear and a time to mend,
       a time to be silent and a time to speak,

 ⁸ a time to love and a time to hate,
       a time for war and a time for peace.

What Makes A Woman Sexy?

 By "sexy," I'm not talking about
JUST being physically sexy...

SOME WOMEN ARE SEXIER THAN WE ARE

Sure, it can START things -- but it does
a terrible job at finishing it. If you
know of certain sexy, beautiful women
who always have bad relationships with
men, then you know what I mean.

Nope, you can't rely on your looks
alone. You'll have to be sexy in other
areas of your life, as well! Because
here's the solution to the problem:

IT'S WHAT HE DISCOVERS LATER THAT MAKES
HIM FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU!

I'm talking about being sexy in ALL
areas of your life.

Life's too short to be unattractive!
Here are a few tips to help you become a
little more sexy on the inside:

#1 - NO DRAMA, PLEASE

Let me ask you this: Since when did
drama become sexy?

-- it wastes his time, it doesn't get
you what you want, and it's downright
annoying. I'm pretty sure even the
little boys hate it!

By the way, it's important to define
drama NOT from OUR perspective, but from
the GUY'S perspective!

We might think "drama" consists of
harsh criticism, crying, and temper
tantrums.

But you know what? To a guy, even simple
RANTING qualifies as drama!

Yes, it's normal for us to rant. But NO,
it's NOT normal for us to rant to the
men in our lives!

It's probably okay once in a while, but
for maximum satisfaction, save the
ranting for your girlfriends.

So you basically have two choices. You
can choose to be whiny and dramatic,
totally dependent on your man for your
happiness.

Or you can choose to:

#2 - STAND ON YOUR OWN TWO FEET

Now I don't watch a lot of TV besides
the Discovery and History channels, but
I do watch certain soaps and crime shows
during my downtime.

And in most of my favorite shows, I've
noticed that the best, most likeable
female leads are strong, independent
women who can stand up for themselves.

I still think TV is one of the biggest
time-wasters in life today, which is why
I found it surprising to find something
USEFUL out of soap operas and crime
shows...

It's true -- independent women are SEXY!
It's absolutely attractive to a man when
he knows he doesn't have to babysit his
girlfriend all the time.

Sure, we like being spoiled once in a
while.

But it's NOT okay when it becomes a
habit or addiction! When you start
getting worried or angry when your
boyfriend doesn't call or text you more
than once a day, that's a bad sign!

So learn to stand on your own two feet.
The next time you feel like ranting,
complaining, or playing the blame game,
remember -- it's NOT sexy!

If you want to be truly sexy, don't
complain -- stand up and do something
about it!

And finally, here's my last "sexy"
tip for this newsletter:

#3 - DON'T STOP GROWING

Too many of us make the mistake of
wanting to "settle down."

It's fine to want a comfortable life,
but remember -- if you're TOO
comfortable, you might risk becoming
boring and predictable. And that's
something most real men don't want in
their life partners!

Real men always prefer having
interesting women as their partners
through life. They want a woman who
shares their passion for all things new.

That's why it's important to keep
growing as a person. It's important to
get SEXIER with time -- physically,
intellectually, and emotionally!

Ladies, I just gave you three tips on
how to be a little more sexy and sensual
to the men you meet.

But that's not all! There's more -- And that
is to continue to grow... I am saving more later Ladies!
Till next time....


Ciao,


Kimmy A.

The Secret of A Billionaire's Wife

 Do you believe in "Law of attraction"? Maybe you should need to give a minute to read the secret of a Billionaire's wife. 

BILLIONAIRE WIFE SECRET #1 - IT'S NOT
JUST ABOUT LOOKING GOOD

Sure, when you look at the wives of billionaires, it's easy to think, "Wow, they sure look good. They were lucky to catch the eye of their billionaire husbands."

That's not really the case. According to Forbes' Billionaire Wives List: "Looks are good, but brains are even better." And that's a secret the wives of many of today's billionaires take to heart!

I'm sure you'll agree with me that most billionaires today are smart, hardworking, visionary people.They are!

And I'm sure you'll also agree with me that such wonderful men would also want someone equally fantastic to spend the rest of their lives with.

That's why billionaire wives need to match up to and keep up with their billionaire husbands.

Ever heard of the phrase, "Behind every man's success is a woman?" You may be surprised to know that some billionaire wives are even smarter and more successful than their billionaire husbands!


So don't just work on your looks. Work on your mind, too.

Keep on moving!


BILLIONAIRE WIFE SECRET #2 - HAVE A LIFE
OF YOUR OWN.

Some women think that billionaire wives do nothing but go around spending their husbands' money.
That's NOT true! Many wives of billionaires today are billionaires in their own right -- working hard, taking risks, serving the community, etc.

Let me give a few examples...

Do you know Sergey Brin? He's the co-founder of Google, perhaps the best-known name on the Internet. In 2007, he married Ann Wojcicki, a Yale graduate.
Ann started out as a health-care analyst, but now owns her own biotech organization.

See? Now that she's the husband of Google's co-founder, she could just as well stop working and live comfortably for the rest of her life. 

But She didnt. She had a life of her own.

She didn't stop working, and instead opened an entirely new business centered around her expertise!

Here's another example. Do you know Michael Dell? He's the billionaire head honcho of Dell Computers.
His wife, Susan Dell, didn't heed the temptation to just sit back and enjoy the billionaire lifestyle. Instead, she hustled to live up to the title of "billionaire wife.'

Today, Susan heads her own fashion line. That's right -- she owns her own company! Definitely not someone who "sits around and does nothing," if you ask me!

After all, the most successful men out there definitely WON'T look for a woman who's only going to depend on them!

BILLIONAIRE WIFE SECRET #3 - KNOW THAT
IT'S NOT JUST ABOUT YOU.

I'd like to give another example of a well-known billionaire wife. She's Melinda Gates, the wife of the billionaire head of Microsoft, Bill
Gates.

She's done some notable work at her husband's community, developing some of its better-known products. But Melinda doesn't spend all her time at Microsoft.

In fact, she devotes a large chunk of her time, resources, and attention to the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, which focuses on reducing extreme poverty in Africa and improving education in America.

To date, she and her husband bill have donated more than 24 billion dollars to the Foundation.

Here's one secret about billionaire wives -- they're NOT money-grubbers. Many of them are actually kind-hearted,
gentle souls who DON'T think about themselves all the time.

Remember one thing -- the most successful, the most responsible, and the most commitment-ready men out there DON'T stay put.
They keep moving. They keep growing. And they keep finding ways to become even BETTER men as time goes by.

And here's the thing -- they'll want their girlfriends and wives to keep up with them. They'll want the women in their lives to be just as dynamic, if not more so, than they are.



So the question is - CAN YOU MATCH A BILLIONAIRE HUSBAND?

http://blogs.wsj.com/wealth/2008/07/14/the-secret-to-marrying-a-billionaire-brains/

My Stands about Marriage and Commitment

People blame marriage for causing bad relationships when it’s people who cause bad relationships. When a marriage fails, it’s not because the couple got married. It’s because people change. Or they realize that they don’t have what it takes to stay married to this person, which of course is something they should have realized long before they considered marrying him or her. But I don’t think it’s right to blame marriage per se for making people unhappy with each other. It’s not marriage that’s the problem; it’s that people see it differently than they used to.

It’s funny how gay people are fighting for the right to get married while straight people are eschewing it. I think marriage is important because of what it symbolizes: that you’re committed to one another and plan to make a life together. I know some people think that people who don’t get married aren’t willing to make that commitment and that’s not necessarily true.

Marriage may not always stand for lifelong commitment. But it is still true that marriage stands for some kind of commitment. Otherwise why bother to marry? Why do gays want to marry, for instance, especially when they are already able to reap the benefits of marriage by establishing themselves as domestic partners?

But that was their business. There are all different ways of showing that you have a commitment to another person. One is to have children together. You’ll always have ties with the other parent, even if you don’t marry. Brad Pitt and Jennifer Aniston Broke up because Jen doesnt want to bear a child. Now, Brad is happily living together with Angelina and their kids without any marriage involve. I think extension of love is what giving the couple to stay together and more commited than ever.

Some people believe that staying together without marriage shows more commitment, because after all, you don’t have to stay together. When the actress Farrah Fawcett was dying of colon cancer, the man she had lived with for decades and had a child with (Ryan O’Neal) was there by her side even though they hadn’t been together for several years. In my opinion, this shows that they had felt married, no matter what they told the world.

Commitment is the real issue here. People get married because they want to show that they’re committed to the relationship. They often stay married because of that same commitment. But if the commitment is no longer there, divorce will almost inevitably follow.

10 Things I wanna Do Before I Die

1. Fly A Plane.
2.Hang My Art in A Gallery.
3.Walk all the way of the Great Wall of China.
4.African Safari.
5.Drive a professional NASCAR Stock Car.
6..Cross a country on a bicycle.
7.Gate crash in a Private Party.
8.Meet the Dalai Lama.
9.Sleep under the stars.
10.Get Married.

5 Traits That The Real Lady Should Have

1. She treats everyone as an equal

She would speak to the janitor, waiter or hotel receptionist as she would to her friends. Always polite, unhurried, undemanding. She does not gush or laugh a little louder to try to impress or please. She does not elevate or 'humble' herself. She has one manner for all.

2. She is Kind, Thoughtful And Considerate

Her speech is always gracious because complaining and being negative ruins someone's mood. 

3. She is a Quality over Quantity type of woman.

She develops an acute taste and eye for quality. This requires discipline, be it shopping for books or food. To prefer quality is a form of respect. She respects herself, the workmanship, and the cost of what it took to obtain it.

4. She Values Education and Self-Improvement

She makes an effort to be interested in matters outside herself. Therefore, reading is a mainstay hobby for intellectual pursuits and so are sport because it develops character. Travel is valued because it expands horizons and helps her gain perspective. It increases her understanding on culture.

5. She Contributes to Society

She often thinks about how she can give, and be a useful and contributing member of society. She realizes this secret...giving and living larger than yourself is a source of great happiness and fulfillment.
Thus, she is generous. She wants in her own way, to make the world a better place. She wants to be a useful and contributing member of society


and always ask yourself, "What is the kindest way possible of doing this thing?".